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The Sounds of Advice #116: Views

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Are any of our views truly our own or do we simply inherit them from the environments and societies we live our lives in? Kate: I'd like to think I have my own views, but I think sometimes our environment plays a part in it. We can always change and do better than what is around us though. Sandy: Michalle: Aisling: Sid: Facebook Weighs In:

The Sounds of Advice #115: The Ultimate Sacrifice

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If you knew that sacrificing your life would have a huge benefit to thousands of people, would you do it? Kate: Sandy: Aisling: Michaelle: Sid: Facebook Weighs in: 

The Sounds of Advice #114: Humanity Come Together

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Can humanity ever come together around a common cause or are we all too selfish as individuals? Kate: As much as I'd like to hope and remain positive, I don't think we ever could.  Facebook Weighs in: I think the majority of humanity can ... but you will ALWAYS have those who won’t no matter what  -Charity L. As long as we remain in a me, me, me State of mind, it will be difficult. -Anita S. We might come together if aliens from another planet attacked. Maybe ... -Debbie K.

The Sounds of Advice: Consciousness

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If consciousness is a purely human trait, are we better off for it or does it simply lead to greater problems? Kate:  I think everything has positive and negatives, but as a whole we are better off with it.  Sandy: Michaelle:  Aisling: Sid: Facebook Weighs In: 

The Sounds of Advice #112: Things that Benefit Your Life

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What is something that you could realistically do today that would benefit the rest of your life? What’s stopping you? Kate: Write more. I know getting my writing out there more would help, but it's hard to find the motivation to do so. Sandy:  paying off all my credit cards. Which I'm doing slowly. Just seems to be taking forever

The Sounds of Advice #111: Extra-terrestrial Life

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If intelligent extra-terrestrial life was discovered, how do you think humanity would react? How would you react? Kate: Based on the fact that humanity as a whole cannot accept differences within our own species, the reaction to other intelligent life wouldn't go over well. A long time ago back when there were radio shows, someone read War of the Worlds and mass hysteria ensued. I don't think it would be much different than that, even all these years later. Me personally, I already believe in such things existing, because it seems impossible that we are the only intelligent life form. I use that term loosely though-intelligent. For me it would be almost an I knew it moment.  Sandy: Michaelle: Facebook Weighs In:

The Sounds of Advice #110: Measure Life

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How should we measure our lives? In years? In moments? In accomplishments? Something else? Kate: I like to measure mine in moments and love.  Sandy:  Honestly, if you feel you are rocking life then great! If you feel you need to something that will make you feel like you are rocking life do it!! I honestly don't think anything really measures life. It's all in how you see your life. Cause that is the only real life you have control over. Aisling: Michaelle: Sid: Facebook Weighs In: 525600 minutes -Allison C. Why not with Happiness? Personally I like to measure my life the way the Egyptians did. They believed that upon death they would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they can continue their journey in the afterlife. The first question was “Did you find joy in your life?” And the second was “Did you bring joy to others?” I feel like as long as you’re living peacefully and can find the happy moments then you...

The Sounds of Advice #109: Easier to Love or Hate

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Is it easier to hate or to love? Why? Kate: Honestly, for most of the world, it's easier to hate than it is to love. We're so full of prejudice that we are unaccepting of  anyone different than us. However, just because it is easier to hate, doesn't mean that we should. Easy doesn't equal right.  Sandy:  Michaelle:  I, also, believe it depends on your past. Facebook Weighs in: Depends on your past I suppose. I tend to hate easier than love. I’ve been fucked over a lot. However, I also try not to hate because hate destroys both you and the world. Hate comes easier for me and it’s also a task to let the hate fade away -Katie G. I think it depends on you as a person. I had a rough childhood and adult life. Those who have wronged me or stood silently by hate comes easy. On the other side there are people who I love and will love with my last dying breathe. One person in my life I both love and hate for different reasons -Shauna Y.

The Sounds of Advice #108: Good Health or Deteriorating Health

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Imagine you’re 65. Would you rather live another 10 years in good health with full mobility or another 40 years in deteriorating health with limited mobility? Kate: I already have poor health, so I think I'd rather live longer. Michaelle:  Definitely, the 10 years with full mobility. Facebook Weighs In: I would rather just live and let things fall where they may. I don't want to know when my time is up. -Anita S. I would have to go with 10. -Gina D. I’m loving the next whoever knows how long the second way anyway -Jenn W. 10 -Lisa S.

The Sounds of Advice #107: When a Secret Puts Someone in Danger

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If someone told you a secret, but in keeping the secret, it put someone's life in danger. Would you still keep the secret or tell the proper person/authority?  Kate: In general, I don't share secrets that I've been told, but when it puts someone's life in danger in keeping the secret, telling is always better. I don't think I could knowingly turn a blind eye to it.   Sandy:  I never joke about someone's life. Depending on what was going on, I would find a way to keep them safe and still tell who needed to know. Secrets are good, but when it comes to life or death something needs to be said. Michaelle:  I'd try to keep the confidence and help the person in danger. Facebook Weighs In: Yes I’d break said secret -Katie G. I would protect the secret...but yet save the life and inform people who could help...maybe even lie if needed be! Nothing is more important than saving someone's life! -Twinkle V. I'd tell -Anita S. ...

The Sounds of Advice #106: For the Sake of Kindness

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If you do a good deed in order to feel good about it, is it kindness or business? Does it matter either way? Kate: Both? I think if you do it for the wrong reasons, it does lose some of the meaning behind it, but to the person on the receiving end, it might mean the world to them. One should never do good things out of reasons that aren't pure.  Sandy:  I do it because I want to. I don't ever feel I have to or that it is anyway business related. I care a lot about others and so I always try to be nice to others because we really don't know what is going on behind closed doors. So to speak. Michaelle:  Facebook Weighs in: Doesn’t matter but I do then mostly out of kindness -Jenn W. A person should just always try to be kind. It shouldn't be bout business or making yourself feel better. Be kind because it's the right thing to do. Making someone else's day. And if it makes you feel good bout yourself, then it's a blessing -Colleen R. ...

The Sounds of Advice #105: Computer Simulation

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How do we know that we’re not living in a computer simulation? Kate: We don't have any definitive proof one way or another. We all want to know why we're here though, and this is one viable option. It's a better alternative than some of the theories out there. I love The Matrix, but I'm not sure I want to be living it.   Sandy:  We don't. We just have to keep doing what we are doing. However, we have brains so we can change how things go as far as what we want to do. Michaelle:  We know we are not living in a computer simulation because humans are not completely predictable and computers haven't been around for a hundred years yet. Facebook Weighs In: That’s the leading theory for the origin of the universe. It’s all just a simulation playing out. It also makes sense cuz everything is mathematically computable. It can all be converted and identified through 1’s and 0’s -Shawn S. We don't. This world has become so technologically...

The Sounds of Advice #104: Chance of Murder

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If you knew there was an 80% chance that someone was going to commit murder in their lifetime, but a 20% chance that they would not, would you imprison them before they had the opportunity? What if it were 50-50? Kate: This can be a tricky situation. Knowing there is a high probability that someone is going to do something can skew your view of them and use that to justify treatment or prejudice. But at the same if you could stop it, you'd want to. Locking them up could contribute to them committing said murder, because it's not something that just happens outside of prison.  From a psychological standpoint, I'd want to help them, if that was possible.. Nature versus nurture kind of thing. Obviously you shouldn't be treated as a criminal if you're not one.  Sandy:  No, however in our courts seems no one cares. People get let go for something they did or people are put in for something they didn't. People will do what they want no matter what. ...

The Sounds of Advice #103: Freewill

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Does a belief in free will make you more or less happy? Kate: Yes and no. The belief doesn't so much, but the fact that I can make my own decisions does. I'm not sure I believe in it truly, because somethings are just out of our hands, but knowing that I can make my own decisions does. Sandy:  I don't believe this to be true. I mean if it's something you can get it's only a temporary happiness. It's takes so much to be happy. Facebook Weighs In: The belief doesn't. Actual free will would make me happy -Anita S. More happy - Lori M. It makes me more happy -Heather K.

The Sounds of Advice #102: Which is a Scarier Thought

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Which is a scarier thought: that the human race is the most advanced form of life in the universe, or that we are mere amoeba compared to other life forms? Kate: I think they are both equally terrifying propositions, but of the two, I think the more true one is that we are merely amoeba.  And that's scary, because it is our reality.  Sandy:  I feel human race is the most advanced because if they know about this they will try to use it in some weird way that they don't need too causing chaos everywhere and possibly ending human life. Michaelle:  The scarier thought to me is that the human race is the most advanced form of life in the universe. This thought seems very sad to me because we still have so much more to learn and grow in order to be that significant. Facebook Weighs In: Human's aren't even the most advanced form of life on this planet - Leanne Z. I’ll take amoeba for $200 Alex -Dan A.

The Sounds of Advice #101: Making the World A Better Place

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What do you do to make the world a better place? Kate: I always am someone you can come to with your problems, whether you just want to vent or advice, I listen. I try to pay it forward. Hugs! I offer hugs to anyone who needs one. Sandy:  I try to pay it forward as much as I can. I hold open doors. I have noticed even saying please and thank can really make people happy. Aisling:  I try to do a random act of kindness once a day.  I pick up garbage when I see it.  I recycle. I teach my children to do the same  Michaelle:  Uplifting others by cheering for them in their accolades.  Complimenting others. Encouraging others. Sharing learned info. Facebook Poll: I'm always willing to lend a helping hand. -Colleen R. I do several things: I don’t litter  I complimented women  I’m honest and kind to everyone -Charity L. I always leave my quarter behind in the cart at Aldi -Leanne Z. ...

The Sounds of Advice #100: Time Traveler

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What question(s) would you like to ask a time traveler from 200 years in the future? Sandy:  I would want to know if the world changed for the better. Sid:  Have humans gotten over themselves yet or are half of us still fighting for basic human decency? Michaelle:  I would want to know about any wars, if there was one world currency yet, if there was one world leader, pretty much if any prophecies had come to fruition. Kate: I'd ask about the state of our government and the general mood of the world.  Facebook Weighs in: I would ask him/her if I ever got my promotion at work and what legacy I left behind for my family  -Brittany W. Whether I spent the rest of my life doing the same circle dance called my life -Jenn W. Is there anything we should do now, to make "200 years later" better? Have we risen above discriminations and power struggle? -Twinkle V.

The Sounds of Advice #99: Biggest Self-Realization

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What was the biggest realization you had about yourself? Sandy:  I can always handle more than I think I can and come out better for it. Michaelle:  Really so many things. Each new decade of life brings many life experiences and new realizations. It's hard to accept how naive and sheltered you are when you're young. Grateful for the understanding and knowledge I now have as well as the things I will continue to learn. Sid:  I'm more important than what others think of me. Kate: That I am a fighter and a warrior despite all of my mounting health issues and I can still take on the world. Facebook Weighs in: I’m stronger than I think even on my worst days -Jenn W. I’m stronger than what I give myself credit for. -Kathy C. Probably that I may have been misdiagnosed as having mild intellectual disability and might actually have dyspraxia, dyslexia and dyscalculia. I feel I might need to get it checked out. -Yvonne A.  That I’m not th...

The Sounds of Advice #98: Apocalyptic Dystopia

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Which apocalyptic dystopia scenario do you think is most likely? Michaelle:  Definitely WWWIII, prophecy. Sandy:  WWIII or evolutionary  Sid: The Hunger Games  Kate: It's really a toss up between WWIII or environmental disaster  Facebook Weighs in: Nuclear holocaust -Kara S. Pandemic or hyperinflation -Leanne Z. Zombie apocalypse -Mary G. Ultimately, humanity will cause our downfall. Whether we kill the earth or wipe out all life. Probs war, the war technology is devastating nowadays even. -Arminta D. Viral pandemic the likes of the black death or Spanish flu. With anti vaccers not getting thier children vaccinated we will start to see once dead pathogens come back -Kris M. Hunger Games -Rachael K. Yellowstone super volcano or nuclear war -Katy R. The hunger games or Ready Player one if that counts! -Shannon V.

The Sounds of Advice #97: Lessons From Fiction

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What’s the best lesson you’ve learned from a work of fiction?  Sid:  Probally how multi-dimensional people can be. Kate: That anyone can be weird if you watch them long enough. It's from "The Ghost of Graylock." It's the most recent one that I can think of. I know there are a lot of other things I've learned from works of fiction though.  Facebook Weighs In: Never trust a Lannister -Leanne Z.