I Am Loved Excerpt - I Am Me


I Am Me
By Kate Marie Robbins

My name is Kate and I belong to the LGBT community. Does that surprise you? It shouldn’t. And you know what else? It shouldn’t even matter. Who I choose to love is my business and no one else’s. Just like it doesn’t matter that I choose to write with my free time. What I do is my business.
     I didn’t always know I was pansexual. It’s not even something that I can pinpoint the exact moment when I knew. It was always a part of me; it just took me a long time to realize who I was. It’s taken me a long time to even love myself, so why should my sexual orientation be any different? 
     I’ve dated men and I’ve dated women. That doesn’t make me a bad person—not by a long shot. Being pansexual is a part of who I am, but it’s not the only thing I am. I am a friend, I am a daughter, and I am an aunt. I am a woman with many talents and skills that I use to put good back into the world. So why should my sexual orientation dictate whether or not I’m a good person? Simple answer: It shouldn’t. And it doesn’t.
     My friends, family, and boyfriend all love me for who I am—every aspect of who I am, including my sexual orientation. I give my all in everything I do and spread as much love, happiness, and joy back into a world that desperately needs it. I love who I am and the woman I’ve become. 
     We should all be allowed to be comfortable in our own skin. We should all be able to be who we truly are without living in fear. That’s all anyone ever wants, to be accepted and loved the way they are. Why is it so hard for that to happen? Why can’t we all just get along? I don’t understand that. 
     Despite all of the struggles, I am me. I will always be true to myself. 

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